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For most people concerned
with the everyday pressures of making financial ends meet, these are the
two most feared words in the English language. In 1991, longtime Sherman
Oaks resident, Laurie Bender, heard these words from her employer. After
graduating UCLA with an art degree, Ms. Bender spent the next 17 years
in the garment industry in Los Angelas employed as a designer/merchandiser
for various well-known manufacturers. She earned a comfortable six-figure
income and managed a staff of 14 employees. When the company was sold,
Bender became rapidly dissatisfied with the new situation.
Her discomfort eventually led to her termination, and to an un-avoidable
crossroad in her life. In interview after interview, Ms. Bender realized
that she had achieved an unmatchable salary level, and was older than
other job applicants willing to work for less income. Ms. Bender re-marks,
"I had already been there, done that. It was time for a drastic lifestyle
change."
A weekend painter for several years, Bender usually spent Saturday mornings
in the Santa Monica Mountains painting "en plein air." Now that
unexpected free time presented itself, Ms. Bender devoted all her waking
hours to producing a body of work of such landscapes as Topanga Canyon
and Malibu Creek State Parks. "The only people who had seen my work
up until this time were other students, family and friends no one
who could or would give me an unbiased opinion. I hungered to put my work
out in front of the public, and see if it would be validated, or whether
I was painting just for my own enjoyment."
One weekend, Bender attended a local outdoor art show and met an artist
who ultimately became her mentorhe told her if she was serious about
exhibiting and learning the "tools of the trade" to show up
at this studio three weeks hence. Ms. Bender did indeed show up. With
his guidance, she planned to attend her first outdoor show to be held
in Palm Springs.
"I set up my booth, hung my artwork, and priced it according to my
mentor's suggestions. Before I knew it, a doctor and his wife came up
and said they wanted to purchase one of the paintings that was marked
$1000. It was all I could do to act like I'd done this a thousand times
before." - To this day, Ms. Bender has a quote about "commitment"
given to her by a fellow artist as encouragementsitting on the top
of her desk: "Until one is committed there is hesitancy, the chance
to draw back, always in effectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative
(and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which
kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely
commits oneself, then Providence moves too." Ms. Bender owes her
success to that kind of commitment, she says. "When you finally find
your passion in life, and commit yourself to it 100%, all kinds of miraculous
incidents will start to occur. It's as if the universe recognizes you're
finally on your right path."
"The toughest thing I've had to get used to is thel unpredictability
in my income flow. Now I can say that I'm comfortable with the notion
of being uncomfortable!," Bender said. "I was brought up to
believe that all things are attainable if you work very very hard,"
Bender stated.
Unlike other artists, she actively promotes and markets to her customers.
One of the things she specializes in is going out on appointments to clients'
homes and advising them on framing and hanging the art-work.
Today Bender is a nationally known award-winning artist. She exhibits
at prestigious outdoor art venues all over the country. Her original watercolor
landscapes start at $4,500. Bender's works are in so much demand that
she only paints specific pieces to order by her clients.
"Having your own business is the fulfillment of a dream. What I will
tell you is now I have the toughest boss of allme! It's empowering
to know you can do it, and that knowledge changes everything," Bender
said.
Laurie Bender can be reached through her website at www.lauriebender.com,
or at her studio at (818) 788-3061.
Tolucan Times, March
29, 2000
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